There are five types of people whom you may mix with but should never take them as your friends. It's better to maintain a superficial relationship with them limiting it to just “hi, hello” etc; so that they don't become your enemies and they may sometimes be useful for you. Let's see who they are:
Cowards: They will flee away when you will be in danger. So, you will not get them when you need their help. Be careful about these people. You should never trust them.
Miser: You will give them a lot but will never get from them. Your sacrifices will go in vain. You will no be able to get help when it's crucial for you. You may sell you kidney but they won't have the mentality to spend a penny for you. If you consider them as your friends, you must be a fool.
People who blame others from behind: Remember, if a person always blames others to you, he/ she will , undoubtedly, blame you to others at your ignorance.
This person can cause a great harm to you. It's better to get safe from him. The more you mix with him, the more you are harmed.
Selfish : When you are going to be someone's friend, make sure that he/she is not a selfish person. Test him/her with many techniques . Closely observe his/her behavior. Observe how he/she acts at a moment when sacrifice should be done. Remember, friendship without sacrifice is like a river without fish and water.
A selfish person is always harmful because he just thinks about his own benefits, not yours. You can get nothing from him except some wasted times. And when it's a matter of his own benefit, he will not hesitate to destroy you.
Dishonest: This is the most dangerous one. A person who is dishonest can do anything. His conscience doesn't prevent him from doing an evil deed. If you have to make a decision of accepting someone as your friend, make sure that he/she is an honest person. Test him/her in various ways. Observe his activities. Don't judge him with his behavior with you only. See how he behaves with others and observe if he is honest or not.
It's to be noted that I am not suggesting you to leave these people completely. You should be careful about them so that they can't cause a harm to you but if you never mix with them you can't bring them on the right way.
Every human being has mistakes, wrong conceptions, flaws inside him. No one is perfect. We all are guilty and full of flaws. Committing sin is our instinct. Therefore, we can't only blame others. We should blame ourselves too and we should always remember that I myself may have the faults I am blaming someone else for.
I myself (or you) may be one of the five types of people I have mentioned here. But I (or you) can't feel that because we are blind to ourselves. So , should I hate someone for the faults that I myself have in me?
I should think about myself also and I shouldn't hate others for some of their bad habits. And I request you not to leave your friend completely if you find the five bad sides in him I mentioned here. If you are a good person , you have many things to give others. Bad people can become good coming in contact with good ones. So, if good people leave bad people , they can never find the right path. So, you should talk and mix with them to correct them. But remember to be careful.
Cowards: They will flee away when you will be in danger. So, you will not get them when you need their help. Be careful about these people. You should never trust them.
Miser: You will give them a lot but will never get from them. Your sacrifices will go in vain. You will no be able to get help when it's crucial for you. You may sell you kidney but they won't have the mentality to spend a penny for you. If you consider them as your friends, you must be a fool.
People who blame others from behind: Remember, if a person always blames others to you, he/ she will , undoubtedly, blame you to others at your ignorance.
This person can cause a great harm to you. It's better to get safe from him. The more you mix with him, the more you are harmed.
Selfish : When you are going to be someone's friend, make sure that he/she is not a selfish person. Test him/her with many techniques . Closely observe his/her behavior. Observe how he/she acts at a moment when sacrifice should be done. Remember, friendship without sacrifice is like a river without fish and water.
A selfish person is always harmful because he just thinks about his own benefits, not yours. You can get nothing from him except some wasted times. And when it's a matter of his own benefit, he will not hesitate to destroy you.
Dishonest: This is the most dangerous one. A person who is dishonest can do anything. His conscience doesn't prevent him from doing an evil deed. If you have to make a decision of accepting someone as your friend, make sure that he/she is an honest person. Test him/her in various ways. Observe his activities. Don't judge him with his behavior with you only. See how he behaves with others and observe if he is honest or not.
It's to be noted that I am not suggesting you to leave these people completely. You should be careful about them so that they can't cause a harm to you but if you never mix with them you can't bring them on the right way.
Every human being has mistakes, wrong conceptions, flaws inside him. No one is perfect. We all are guilty and full of flaws. Committing sin is our instinct. Therefore, we can't only blame others. We should blame ourselves too and we should always remember that I myself may have the faults I am blaming someone else for.
I myself (or you) may be one of the five types of people I have mentioned here. But I (or you) can't feel that because we are blind to ourselves. So , should I hate someone for the faults that I myself have in me?
I should think about myself also and I shouldn't hate others for some of their bad habits. And I request you not to leave your friend completely if you find the five bad sides in him I mentioned here. If you are a good person , you have many things to give others. Bad people can become good coming in contact with good ones. So, if good people leave bad people , they can never find the right path. So, you should talk and mix with them to correct them. But remember to be careful.
